Is this you? A cross-section of an O.C.F. brain. Note the depths.
No one knows the exact moment O.C.F. enters the brain, but many theorize. Some believe it’s that first time a child sticks a hook through a worm. Others, the first moment a bobber goes down. And still others argue that it’s the first cast off a dock. In reality, there are most likely thousands of ways Obsessive Compulsive Fishing enters the brain. But it’s learning to manage the obsession that is so crucial.
That is a very important question. The first step to managing your obsession is admitting to yourself that it exists.
Please read these five simple questions and answer them honestly.
1. When eating finger foods, do you ever smell fish on your hands?
2. Has your loved one ever been upset with you for coming home late because you were “stuck” on the water?
3. Do you own a higher number of fishing rods than you do shoes?
4. Do you secretly feel upset when someone in the boat catches more fish than you?
5. When preparing to call it a day, do you ever make five or more “last casts”.
If you answered “yes” to two or more of these questions, you are a member of one of the fastest growing conditions in America.
1. FIND A SUPPORT SYSTEM. It’s vital to form meaningful relationships with others like yourself. Sitting in a boat with other O.C.F.-ers is a good place to start. Long visits to bait & tackle shops also make for good bonding experiences.
2. SET LIMITS. It’s not difficult for an angler with O.C.F. to lose all comprehension of time on the water. That’s why it’s important to set limits. What is a reasonable amount of time for me to fish today? Are there errands, tasks, appointments I can’t miss because of my fishing? How many hours a week is a fair amount? Set limits, even if you might not stick to them.
3. CARE FOR THOSE CLOSE TO YOU. Loved ones might not understand your behavior, but it’s important to offer some love and sensitivity. Showing up occasionally for music recitals, plays, birthdays, and dinners is a good place to start. Just keep them happy. They’ll be more accepting of your time on the water.
4. FIND SOLITUDE. To stay in touch with your O.C.F., it’s crucial to get away to a place of solitude and fish-filled lakes. Ely, Minnesota is such a place. It is recommended by many O.C.F. lifers as: "A good place to go to catch some nice-sized fish. Even some lunkers if you know what you’re doing."
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